From Stressed to Supported: Anthony’s Story
Anthony has always enjoyed a good sandwich, but lately, being part of the “sandwich generation” has made the term hit closer to home. Balancing full-time work, co-parenting two busy teenagers, and caring for his 92-year-old mother, Sylvie, Anthony had become the “filling” in a complex and loving sandwich.
He soon realised he couldn’t be as available as he wanted to help his mother with everyday domestic tasks and transport to social activities. Their relationship became tense as he found himself acting more like Sylvie’s carer than her son. Although Sylvie cherished spending time with Anthony and his family, she also longed to regain a sense of independence.
How Planwise Helped
After a comprehensive consultation with a Planwise Care Navigator, a tailored plan was developed to meet both Sylvie’s and Anthony’s needs. This included:
Referring Sylvie to trusted carer services for shopping, cleaning, and transport, allowing her to continue attending appointments and enjoying activities like bingo and Tai-Chi classes.
Referencing the Life Curve predictor of health as we age (see Resources), to identify the need for connection with a physiotherapist and occupational therapist to maintain her ability to manage self-care tasks such as showering.
Monthly phone contact with Sylvie over three months to ensure her satisfaction with the support provided and confirm that all her needs were being met.
Referring Anthony to Carer Gateway for emotional support and access to resources to help alleviate his stress.
Providing Sylvie with three trusted legal services in her area so she could update her Will.
Outcomes
Sylvie received the care she required to maintain her quality of life. Anthony’s stress levels were reduced knowing carers were available to support his mother. Sylvie remained as independent as possible, her confidence was boosted, and her relationship with Anthony improved.
Key Takeaways
Support is available to reduce stress and promote engagement in meaningful and essential activities.
Easing the burden of caregiving is vital to maintain healthy relationships.
Respectful acknowledgement of an individual’s wishes leads to positive outcomes.
Feeling stretched between family and caring responsibilities?
Planwise can help you find the right balance and support for both you and your loved ones.
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